My Secret Garden

Where You Can Find Me

2005-07-04T18:47:00.000-05:00

For anyone who will drop by here, you can find me at

http://cooldestinypt1.blogspot.com

My original blog has been "restored" at the above address so please stop by and say hi!!

Staying Home :-)

2005-06-10T10:22:00.000-05:00

Well, I have decided to stay home today. With all the work I've done this past two weeks, even carrying work home ... I think I deserve a "Work From Home" day which I have decided to take today. I'm an on call person so no doubt my cell phone will ring constantly through out the day but I really need a break. I took some work home yesterday but was just too tired to look at it so I'll work on those today in the comfort of my boudoire!!

OK everyone, don't envy me because you have to be at work today. Don't let the "bad mind" get active. Just be happy for me!

Will try to post again later today if I can take a break from the work I have to do!

Rain, Feel It on My Fingertips

2005-06-09T21:10:00.000-05:00

These past two days have been quite rainy. Cats and dogs as they say. It's the kind of weather that makes you want to stay home, curled up in bed with your honey or a good book and a comforter. Real nice weather. Pity we have to go to work every day!!

100 Things About Me

2005-06-07T14:30:00.000-05:00

In light of my missing blog, and for those of you who may not have read this, here it is again.

In attempt to be different, below is my list: “101 Things About Me”

1. I’m an only child
2. I’m not a typical only child
3. My father told me that he wanted 7 children … before he had me!
4. I was the youngest person in my graduating class in High School
5. I was born in St. Andrew, Jamaica at 5:15 a.m. on May 14
6. My first sexual encounter occurred when I was 6 years old
7. This encounter was with an 8 year old boy
8. He didn’t know what sex was.
9. I think I have a split personality
10. I once got drunk on purpose
11. My best friend had to persuade me not to take my top off in the club
12. I was very very happy that night.
13. The first Cassette I ever bought was Tiffany’s debut album.
14. I have a passion for Music
15. I’m a sitcom junkie
16. My favourite comedy of all time is Seinfeld
17. People think my father and I are brother and sister because of the way we interact
18. If I had my choice of X-Men characters, I would be Mystique
19. Think I would call my daughter Mystique … (scary)
20. I want to have 6 children
21. I have none yet
22. I think Masters Degrees are over-rated
23. My favourite singer is Madonna
24. Both my parents are teachers
25. I work in Banking
26. I once had a pet cat named Princess
27. She got run down on the street where I live
28. A cat once crawled through my window and pounced on my back
29. I thought it was my father playing with me
30. I freaked out when I put my hand behind me and felt fur
31. I find the sea relaxing
32. I have a fear of drowning
33. I have an unnatural fear of cockroaches
34. I have a very high sex drive
35. If it were possible, I would have sex every day
36. Hhhhhhmmm, I think I need to make it possible!
37. I have an obsession with Thong panties
38. Someone once bought me “Anne Hooper’s Ultimate Sex Guide: A Sex Therapist’s personalized program for enriching your sex life”
39. A pack of Erotica condoms accompanied this gift
40. I would like to go on a European Cruise before I die
41. People constantly tell me I have a beautiful smile
42. I’m obsessed with brushing my teeth
43. My favourite toothpaste is Listerine Gel
44. I once wanted to be a Stand Up comedian
45. I once wanted to be a stripper
46. See #25
47. I hate teddy bears
48. My favourite alcoholic drink is Rum Cream
49. I’ve always wanted a baby sister
50. I’m in Love
51. I absolutely love astronomy
52. I don’t believe in aliens
53. I think Psychics are fake
54. I almost won the lottery once
55. Like to dance
56. I’m a wonderful person to have as a friend
57. I don’t like hypocrites
58. I think people take advantage of me sometimes
59. I think I’m capable of committing murder
60. And not get caught
61. I’ve never been called for Jury Duty
62. Hope that when I do it’s for a rape case
63. I believe in Capital punishment … (ooops, hope I didn’t make enemies here)
64. My cell phone currently rings “We Wish You a Merry X-Mas)
65. I have a Nokia cell phone
66. Nokia is my name rearranged
67. I love word games
68. My boyfriend constantly wins at Scrabble
69. He doesn’t know that I let him win
70. I’m smart
71. People think I’m very mature and wise for my age
72. People have thought this since I was 10
73. My dentist told me when I was 9 that I have the teeth of a 12 year old
74. I have kept a journal since 1989
75. I used to write poetry
76. I write less poetry now
77. I have hopes of being a Rock/Pop star someday
78. I came 2nd in a Singing Contest
79. I am someone you can count on, loyal, dependable and honest
80. I’ve shoplifted
81. And got caught
82. “I’m not a crook”
83. My favourite fragrance is Narcisse Chloe.
84. This fragrance aggravates the sinuses of 3 of my coworkers
85. I don’t wear Narcisse Chloe to work anymore
86. I enjoy being in Love. It’s Wonderful
87. I might elope instead of having a wedding
88. If I do have a wedding, I will only have 50 people in attendance (being very optimistic here)
89. I burp after having sex
90. Pleasure ………………… whoa!!
91. Sometimes I think I’m a masochist
92. I have calendars on my wall as far back as 1998
93. I make markings on my calendars for special days
94. I have dandruff
95. My favourite colour is purple, blue is a close 2nd
96. I once tried to practice telekinesis
97. Think that’s when I developed a Migraine
98. My mother used to think I faked headaches to escape chores
99. She sucks
100. I type 120 words per minute
101. To know me is to love me … honestly… I’m great!

Oooohhh ...

2005-06-07T08:14:00.000-05:00

The soothing touch of a loved one, the gentle kiss good morning, the soft caress of affection, the tenderness of love-making ... Ooohhh ...

If You Are Not Completely Satisfied, there is a 100% Money Back Guarantee

2005-06-07T07:56:00.000-05:00

We have heard that saying so many times on the many informercials we see on cable tv these days. However, I would like to apply this phrase, not to any weight loss pill guaranteed to make you lose 20 lbs in one week while you still eat all you want, not to any natural male enhancement pill guaranteed to give you longer, harder erections for giving ultimate pleasure to your female partner, not to any vacuum cleaner guaranteed to clean your floor so clean, you will want to eat your dinner off it. No, no, no. I would like to apply this phrase to some of the men and women we have today.

This post is prompted by a dear friend of mine who has been in a relationship for a long time, longer than she should be, but because of love, committment, fear of the unknown, patience, stupidity, blindness, bliss, she has remained in it, not always happy, most time unhappy. She has now finally decided and has told him as much that she is extremely stressed out about the relationship and needs a break to put things in perspective. Surprisingly, he was not upset at this but rather said that he knew that she needed to do this.

Whether it is because he knows the error of his ways (which I strongly think is the reason for this calm reaction) or that he wants a break himself, I began to wonder, what does a person do after many years of committment to one person, only to realize that it was all a big waste of time? Can we get our money back? Can we get back the time invested in this person? Can we get a rebate of the pain and suffereing endured? I don't want to sound melodramatic or anything but this type of thing happens all the time, in long-term relationships, common law marriages and real marriages. How does one feel at the end of such a long road? It is always a fear that prevents us from moving on when we know we should. We hold on and fight for something that just shouldn't not be.

I understand her pain and my heart goes out to her. She will have (hopefully) learnt from the experience. She is a very strong woman and I know she will overcome and bounce back. She deserves to be happy.

For me, I admit that the hurt one can feel may seem unbearable, the world might seem to crumble and you may feel like jumping off a cliff. But ... the experience should only make you stronger. It is always said don't miss the lesson in anything that you do and relationships are no exception. It is the lesson learnt that is our money back guarantee.

Congratulations!

2005-06-07T02:57:00.000-05:00

My parents (both Primary school principals by profession) participated in a Ministry of Education sponsored program with MSVU in Canada and both were awarded their "Diploma In School Management". The graduation ceremony was held yesterday at the Ritz Carlton in Montego Bay.

Lord knows they will never read this blog but big up to them anyway!

Dumb Blonde

2005-06-06T10:07:00.000-05:00

I can't begin to tell you all how pissed I am. This was a rotten weekend. To add insult to injury, I deleted my original blog by mistake on Saturday. So, all my posts, everything I have said, implied, instructed, advised - GONE!!! I have written to blogger to see if there is any hope of getting it back and still await their response.

Everything happens for a reason. Maybe this is blogger's way of telling me I need a new start, a fresh outlook on blogging ... Something??

New Beginnings

2005-06-06T04:18:00.000-05:00

Welcome to my secret garden. Previously known as "Patience Is A Virtue", My Secret Garden is the new beginning of Cool Destiny. I am yet to decide the fresh new twist and turn of this blog but hope that all my faithful visitors will continue to do so.

So, I'm at work. It sucks today. I've intentionally locked myself up in my office. Just don't feel like socializing with the rest of the office today. I think I will be leaving early too. The best thing today so far is the Crimson Fire red colour in my hair! It's just smokin'.

Have a good day everyone.